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Who We Are . . . Really

Carolyn Custis James talks with Kyria.com about women as "helpers," who God really created us to be, and the surprising role model who changed the way she views herself and all women.
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Carolyn Custis James is passionate about women. This powerhouse leader and speaker is known for her biblical and affirming message for women. Author of numerous books including Lost Women of the Bible and The Gospel of Ruth (both published by Zondervan), Carolyn has devoted her life to helping women discover their uniqueness, purpose, and significance in the body of Christ.

Her claim to fame as the first woman to register at Dallas Theological Seminary, and in the first class of female graduates, led her to found Synergy, a national network of women in seminary and in vocational ministries. She is also president of WhitbyForum, a ministry dedicated to helping women go deeper in their relationship with God and serve him alongside their Christian brothers.

Kyria spoke with her at the fifth annual Synergy conference about what drives and fulfills her. Her passion was immediately evident as her eyes filled with tears. "As an image bearer of God, you can't know who you are or what your purpose is if you don't know the One you're supposed to be becoming like," she says. "There's a studied passivity that we get into when we believe that God has called only men to leadership. I don't think you can be an image-bearer and not be called to leadership. That may take a lot of different forms, but oh my goodness, what a big deal that is."

KYRIA: It seems as though whenever I hear you refer to women, you use the word ezer. What does that mean and what is its significance?

When God said, "It's not good for the man to be alone," he added, "I will make a helper." That word is actually the Hebrew word ezer. Historically, we've narrowed the word ezer to mean wife and mother, to indicate that a woman's role is to take on supportive duties for the husband. But when God declared that, they were in Eden. The man didn't have a house, laundry, or meals that needed to be prepared. So what is she helping him with?

There are 21 occurrences of the word ezer in the Old Testament. It's used twice for the woman. But it's used 3 times for nations Israel turned to for military assistance, and 16 times to describe God as Israel's helper.

That definitely changes the discussion.

Exactly. There's a pattern of military imagery: Israel looking for military aid; God as ezer, a shield and defense, better than chariots and horses, standing sentry watch over his people.

But what about the Garden of Eden?

The Garden of Eden was a military context because there was an enemy planning an attack. And man and woman were created to rule and subdue. Adam was commanded to guard the garden. That's military language.

When God said it wasn't good for the man to be alone, that was a blanket statement and not just about marriage. Genesis 1 and 2 are passages about God's vision for the world, for humanity. God created the woman to come alongside him in this battle. She watches his back; he watches her back. They're supposed to be in this battle together.

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mara

November 04, 2011  7:07pm

I am not a bible teacher nor a summarily student I have been involve in some many bible studies. Kay Author,Beth Moore, etc... mother of 2 however When I read these article something hit me hard in my soul B/C I have always admired these tow women and knew there was something more too it than what I have study in these book. I have had my storms just like Naomi and I feel like people should call me Mara,stuck in a really bad situation and left feeling hopeless for almost a year wish has been more than I can bear.With out saying so much I feel Naomi pain. And I ask my self what is my purpose? what is the reason for all these pain where is my Boaz? And where are the women of faith that say they will be there for you ? Everyone want to be a teacher of faith or write a book. But where is the help when you really need it.? Love the way you wrote these story maybe someday my Boaz will come maybe some day the Lord will reach down his hand on me and say enough I will heal your heat.mara

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bhislop

November 04, 2011  10:57am

I so resonate with Carolyn C. James' perspective on the way God values women as image bearers! Stepping up to the plate is something that didn't automatically happen to me either--yet here I am teaching in a seminary! I love walking alongside women who had no thoughts of seminary and watch God open up their hearts to what HE intended for them. This comes from my own story. Imagine our world if we as women (and men)take seriously God's image-bearing intention for us!

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