Hopelessly Romantic
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As the sun melts into the horizon, Anne gazes into Gilbert's eyes and says, "I don't want diamond sunbursts, or marble halls. I just want you."
My sister and I always cheer at this point—the last line of the movie, Anne of Green Gables: The Sequel. Anne's profession of love to Gilbert finally settles years of heart wrenching turbulence during which Gilbert's advances are either ignored or outright rejected. My sister and I never tire of the film series, each time bemoaning Anne's refusals of Gilbert (knowing full well she will accept him in the end), rooting for the determined suitor, and basically enjoying the whole tortuous, tumultuous process.
After watching the movies as a young girl, I daydreamed about having my own romance full of tender looks and pulse-racing emotion. I wondered who my "Gil" would be and how our breathtaking love story would unfold. But my "romantic" experience turned out different from what I envisioned. In fact, it didn't feel romantic at all.
It began in May of 2000. I'd just graduated from college in New York and joined my sister in Longview, Texas, for the summer. We played a lot of sand volleyball and one balmy night, during a lull in the game, two guys walked out of the gymnasium toward the court. When I turned to look, I gazed into a pair of heartrending blue eyes and suddenly heaven opened, a shaft of light beamed down, and background music swelled to a crescendo.
Daniel and I began a friendship as we shared many similar interests. After about a month I was ready to move to the dating stage, with visions of matrimony waltzing into the future. Daniel, however, wasn't so ready. In fact when he asked to "talk" after the first five months, I struggled to fight back tears when he stated his desire to keep our relationship strictly platonic.
Because we ran in the same circles, we continued to see each other often. And the more time I spent near Daniel, the more my heart was drawn to him. I'd never met anyone like him, and knew, without a doubt, that he was the man I wanted to marry. I sensed interest from him as well, both from what he said and from what his body language implied.
During the Christmas break, Daniel called me from California and we talked for more than an hour. So when he returned to Texas for the spring semester and asked if we could "talk," my heart leapt. This was it!
Or not. Even now I can remember the bitter taste in my mouth and the loud ticking of my wall clock after Daniel finished his lengthy monologue with, "And I don't ever see us being anything more than friends." He left shortly afterward. I cried myself to sleep.
Missing God's Romance
Fast forward a year and Daniel was down on one knee, professing undying love and asking if I would spend the rest of my life with him. So, yes, it all worked out, but not without considerable pain and uncertainty. Prior to our wedding, a young, single friend asked for a detailed account of our relationship, and after I told her the story, she wistfully sighed, "How romantic!"
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This is an article that I have bookmarked and continue to go back to several times throughout the month when I need that spiritual uplifting. I am single and in my early 20's. I have a similar situation that is described above in the article, and there have been many tears shed looking for that romance that I have learned about from the media since I was a child. Whether or not I end up happily ever after with this person is not known. But, I know along the path to finding my story book moments in life I can count on God to give his love in the most romantic ways of all. I love this article more each time I read it...and I have read it many times!
Dosanna Nisette
THAT WAS A GORGEOUS ARTICLE. IT'S A DEFINITE REMINDER OF GOD'S LOVE/ROMANTIC SIDE THAT I HAD FORGOTTEN ABOUT. THANKS ALOT FOR THAT ''GOOD FEELING'' I GOT WHEN I WAS FINNISHED!
Anonymous
God, who is love, is the definitive romantic. He professes his love to us through countless "ordinary" ways. But if we let ourselves get "tricked out of romance" we will miss them! We must not allow our to-do lists to crowd out the awareness that we live within the greatest tale of love ever told.
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