Jezebel: The Lost Queen
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[0 Comment]If Jezebel strolled into a boardroom today, she'd be hired in a heartbeat. Intelligent, courageous, and assertive, she was a born leader with considerable influence who boldly took on the competition and got things done.
When such a woman honors the Lord, great things can happen. But this pushy Phoenician princess worshiped Baal, a fertility god. Temple prostitution and child sacrifice were the order of the day. Murdering the prophets of Israel was business as usual. No wonder she's the Lady Macbeth of the Bible.
Nor was her hubby one of history's good guys. In fact, Ahab "did more evil in the eyes of the Lord than any of those before him" (1 Kings 16:30). Topping the list of Ahab's sins? He "married Jezebel and began to serve Baal and worship him" (1 Kings 16:31). Politics, not romance, paired this nefarious couple.
The Steamrolling Spouse
With her sharp tongue, manipulative style, and misdirected devotion, Queen Jezebel is the perfect anti-role model. Imagine my dismay when I discovered a few similarities between her take-charge ways and my strong-natured self, especially when I studied Jezebel's relationship with her less-aggressive husband.
Consider the scene that unfolded in their private chambers at the palace. Ahab was "sullen and angry" because his neighbor Naboth wouldn't let Ahab buy his land to build a veggie garden. Miffed, Ahab "lay on his bed sulking and refused to eat" (1 Kings 21:4).
My husband, Bill, isn't prone to whiningthat would be my specialtybut he is inclined to step back rather than take action. To ruminate rather than retaliate.
Alas, I'm more like steamrolling Jezebel, who jabbed her man with words and goaded him with sarcasm: "Why are you so sullen? Why won't you eat?" (1 Kings 21:5). The words of a concerned wife? Not the way
I hear them. Especially not when she chided him, "Is this how you act as king over Israel?" (1 Kings 21:7).
Those taunting words sound sadly familiar. Soon after we married, Bill was unemployed for several weeks. Instead of playing the role of supportive new wife, I swept through the doorreminding him I'd spent all day at workand demanded, "Have you gone on any interviews? Is this what being the head of the household means to you?"
Jezebel, alive and well at the Higgs house.
What Not to Do
Maybe Jezebel has reared her ugly head where you live, too. Headstrong women like us can learn what not to do by watching Jezebel in action.
After verbally bringing Ahab to his knees, she deftly lifted the crown off his head and placed it on her own, vowing, "I'll get you the vineyard of Naboth the Jezreelite" (1 Kings 21:7). Girl, did she ever. She "wrote letters in Ahab's name" and "placed his seal on them" (1 Kings 21:8), outlining a devious plan to have their neighbor wrongly accused of cursing both God and king. "Then take him out and stone him to death" (1 Kings 21:10), Jezebel insisted.
Originally published in: Today's Christian Woman, 2006, July/August, Vol. 28, Issue 4, Page 30
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Gentleness, Headstrong, Leading, Manipulation
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