Creating Refuge
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[0 Comment]Stories of war and terrorism fill the headlines, TV news, and the minds of our children. The fear of terrorism hasn't turned out to be a short-term deviation from the norm, but a lasting reality of daily life.
Do you know how it impacts your kids?
As a research fellow with the George H. Gallup International Institute, I helped design a Gallup Youth Survey to determine what today's kids, "the Millennials" (children born from 1982 to 2002), say are their biggest needs. The top two results didn't surprise us—our kids want to be trusted and loved (92.7% for trust and 92.2% for love report these as "important" or "very important" needs). But what astonished us was the third need—a desire to feel safe and secure where they live and go to school. This came in at 92.1 percent, statistically almost the same as the top two.
Define the Cry
A cry for security is a deep need for predicatability, safety, and protection, as well as a desire for normalcy. So what can we as parents do to help our kids feel secure? Here are nine ways to offer your child stability.
- Share your feelings with your kids and encourage them to share with you.
- Spend extra, unhurried time together.
- Assure your children that they are loved and safe. Affirm their feelings as being normal in an abnormal situation.
Originally published in: Christian Parenting Today, Page 32
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