Tough Love

5 keys to staying married (when you feel like calling it quits)

Elaine Creasman

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January 17, 2008 7:32 AM

Anonymous

Is it really worth all the pain and damage to one's children to endure living with a selfish pornography loving "christian" man? Isn't there a way out?

March 03, 2008 10:01 AM

Skeeter

I empathize with the author of this article. I understand the struggles of dealing with a husband who has a "relationship" with pronography. I am married to a Christian man who has had a "relationship" with pornography since his college days over 35 years ago. Had I known of his addiction before I married him, I would not have married him. His involvement with his "secret life" with pornography caused him to never try to date me, be with me sexually, or even talk with me about what was on his mind for the 16 years we have been married. Because he developed "relationship" with the women depicted in pornography, he did not need me. I confronted him and told him the activity was not welcome in our home. It or he would have to leave. He has quit for the most part but says his involvement is my fault as I am not available. He has never pursued me. I am finding myself having a hard time forgiving him. He has really hurt me. How do you forgive so that you can move on and have a happy life?