Prescription for Guilt
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[1 Comment]I take antidepressants for depression and anxiety. However, many of my Christian friends suggest I'm just "popping pills" to solve my problems. Why do believers make people feel guilty for taking medication for depression?
Such reactions often are based on ignorance or misunderstanding. Many people don't understand what clinical depression is or how utterly debilitating it can be. They mistakenly think it's a case of "the blues," and that if you just prayed more and pushed yourself more, you'd be fine.
But depression can be an unremitting darkness that affects both mind and body. It can occur without any apparent precipitant and involves intense emotional anguish as well as a rash of physiological symptoms: poor appetite, weight loss, sleep disturbances (frequent midnight and early morning awakenings), loss of energy, and/or an inability to concentrate.
People not only don't understand what depression is, but they seem to assume that medication to treat something with an emotional component is wrong, except when a clear organic cause is discovered. But the mind/body connection is so complex that such black-and-white thinking leads to gross oversimplification.
When biological signs accompany the psychological aspects of depression, research has shown the most effective treatment is a combination of psychological and medical attention. God graciously has enabled people to discover medications that alleviate much human suffering, depression included.
At the same time, it's important to note that taking medication alone usually isn't effective. Other actions can aid in recovery. Someone with arthritis takes medication and follows an exercise regimen. Someone who's depressed may not only require medication, but also a Christian counselor to help her work through any thoughts and feelings that feed the depression.
Remember, Scripture is kind to Christians suffering with depression. God's Word doesn't condemn it or indulge it, as evidenced in many of the Psalms. As you learn to work through your depression in a Christ-honoring way, use the Psalms as prayers.
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I'm 27, married, and the mom of four. When I was a teen, I battled bulimia and anorexia. Although I feel God cured me of my eating disorders, now that I'm trying to lose the weight I gained after four pregnancies, I'm concerned I may relapse. Is this common?
It is. After all, you're probably tempted to find a shortcut to a prepregnancy body after having four babies in short succession. It's also possible that with four young ones to care for, your life feels a little out of control. Attempting to control your weight may be one way you relieve your anxiety about that.
I encourage you to think about what function an eating disorder serves for you. Understanding its purpose will help you battle it more effectively. For example, when you were a teen, the odds are high your eating disorder had more to do with some other issue than simply your body weight. I suspect whatever that was has cropped up again and needs your attention.
Originally published in: Today's Christian Woman, 2004, September/October, Vol. 26, Issue 5, Page 10
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Beth (Registered User)
I appreciate this article stating that anti-depressants are helpful to Christians. I have taken them for years and they help me to function. Unfortunately, this is still something I don't feel comfortable talking about to many people, because of the stigma.
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